Men claim there are no good women out there, while women claim most men are womanizers. When you start dating a man, it can be hard to see if he’s truly committed or not.
Dating a womanizer is a huge challenge, but the worst thing is that you may not realize that your partner is a player. Womanizers enjoy flirting with every woman they meet and they don’t worry about what others say. They are not interested in a long-term, committed relationship, and they can’t make anyone happy.
The Womanizer is a man who isn’t ready to settle down yet, but he’ll do anything to convince you that he is. He’ll tell you you’re the love of your life and that you’ve got great eyes, great legs and great everything.
1. He’s Overly Complimentary
Womanizers are nothing if not complimentary. Truth be told, they know how to make a gal feel special. However, if your man just will not seem to stop complimenting you, especially when you yourself don’t think that it is warranted, you may be looking at someone who is still “playing the field.”
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2. Speaking of secrets, keeping things from you in general is one of the biggest signs that you might be looking at a womanizer.
If he gets incredibly defensive whenever you ask who he just got a text message from or who that missed call was from, he’s probably hiding something much more sinister that he doesn’t want you to know about.
3. Just the two of you, You’ve been meeting up, probably had some pretty hot x, the next step would be to meet his friends.
But there is no sign that’s going to happen. The thing is, this is just about you, him, and a good time.
4. You can’t pin him down, You’ve had a couple good times, you’ve had lots of messages from him. You’re telling your friends - even mum – all about him. But suddenly he goes off-radar. He’s hard to pin down and you don’t know what’s happening. Sadly he’s probably already losing interest.
5. He displays hot and cold behaviour, One minute he’s really into you and telling you he hasn’t met a girl like you before, the next minute, it’s complete silence, then just when you think it’s over, he gets back in touch again. The problem with a serial womaniser is that they are “plate spinners” – who will juggle several women at once, and hop between them, only giving attention to them when they think the girls could disappear. It’s really a case of stoking the fire and giving the minimum amount of attention required to keep a girl’s desire burning. If a guy does the disappearing act, don’t believe him that he’s been so busy with work that he can’t even send a text, instead be aware there are probably other girls on the scene.
6. He has mastered the act of flattery
This guy flatters you like no guy ever has done before. He’ll tell you how beautiful you are, notice your new hairstyle and make you feel like the most important woman in the room. Before you know it, you’ll be wrapped around his little finger, thinking he’s the ultimate dream boy, but the sad truth is, it’s all an act. He’s learnt that sweet talking is the way to win ladies over, so he’ll know exactly how to flirt and compliment you.
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Talk is cheap, and his actions will speak louder than words, so if he soon disappears off the radar after he thinks he’s got you, you’ll know it was all talk.
7. He talks about commitment problems/crazy exes and always plays the victim,
This type of guy knows every trick in the book, and he’ll play the reverse psychology game by claiming he’s not relationship material or has had commitment issues in the past. He’ll never confess it’s his fault though, instead he’ll claim he’s been badly hurt by an ex or use an excuse to make you feel sorry for him and want to “change him”. If this is a guy who has never had a relationship that has lasted more than a few months, that should also ring alarm bells. He’ll probably say that all his exes are crazy but he’ll never admit he’s the one in the wrong.
8. He Doesn’t Call Back For Ages,
You’ve just had a great night with him that you both seemed to enjoy. You had a laugh, some dinner and a bit of romance. It went so well.
But then he doesn’t return your call for days afterwards. What gives?
Eventually, of course, he will return and say that he was busy or something equally empty. He’ll want another giggle, some more dinner and a bit more romance again.
Take all this as a warning sign. He only wants you when he’s got a few needs to fulfil. Once they’ve been taken care of, he’s off to look for other adventures.
9. You immediately feel something is off. I cannot emphasize this enough. For a split second, you feel that something with him is weird. Of course, he’s probably cute and charming, so you push that to the side of your mind. But don’t forget that feeling. Why? Because that’s you telling yourself this guy isn’t genuine.
10. His social media is full of women. Now, it’s normal for people to have men and women on their social media accounts. However, if his social media accounts are mostly made up of women, there’s a red flag right there. It’s a pretty good idea of how his real life looks.
11. Your friends warn you. Listen, as friends, we’re the ones that don’t have our head in the clouds about this guy. We see the way he moves and talks, so, if we tell you he’s a womanizer, he’s probably a womanizer. You may not see it since you’re head over heels for him, but listen to your friends, they have a point.
12. Womanizers in relationships will be incredibly protective of their mobile phones. Even if it has never crossed your mind to take a peek, if you did you would find that he will not keep a record of text messages, everything will be deleted as soon as it has been read, and there will be no trace of the messages that he has sent either.
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13. He never fulfills his promises, If your boyfriend tells you how much he loves you and he wants to marry you, you feel the happiest woman in the world. But if he makes lots of promises and never fulfills any of them, it’s a warning sign. If he always promise you to introduce you to his family and friends, but he don’t even try to do, chances are he is a true womanizer.
14. He texts other girls, regularly.
If he’s hanging out with you and is constantly on his phone texting other girls, chances are he’s not just interested in you.
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