Before finding the right guy to settle down with, you’ll probably go on more than a few dates with men who seem to have potential. But after really getting to know them, they turn out to be duds just like the rest. If you’ve been in many failed relationships, it may start to become harder to really recognize when the guy standing in front of you is “The One” or not.
We can’t help you find the man of your dreams, but we can give you a little bit of advice on all the signs you should look for that will help you determine if he’s a keeper or not.
1. He’s Happy When You’re Happy, Plus The Other Way Around
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You know you’ve found someone truly special when they’re not just willing, but eager to sacrifice a little bit of their own happiness if it means making you happy.
Finding the person who genuinely takes joy from your happiness is one of the greatest things in life. And what makes it even better is when you are also able to take joy from their happiness, and give to each other selflessly and without restraint.
2. He Accepts You, Have you ever been involved with a guy who didn’t accept you for who you were? Maybe he would always put you down for the way you dressed, or he would complain about the amount of makeup you wore. It definitely made the relationship difficult, right? Nothing sucks more than being with a guy who doesn’t accept you, so when you finally find someone who loves the total package that you are, hold on to him!
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3. When a guy is in love with you and he sees a future with you, you will be the first person on his mind at all hours of the day. Immediately when he wakes up, you will be the first to receive a “good morning” text message. And before he goes to bed, you’re the last voice he wants to hear. Whether something good or bad is happening in his life, he will always pick up the phone to share the news with you. You’re basically the only contact that shows up in his cell phone call log.
4. When a man is really serious about being in a relationship with you, he will not hesitate to make some pretty important sacrifices for you.
Making sacrifices is something that comes naturally to him because he wants to do whatever is needed to make you happy and to make your relationship work out. Compromising and making sacrifices is a huge part of being married so hopefully, you are open and willing to make sacrifices for him, too!
5. It’s only natural for us to be curious about our partner’s family, and any guy who is your future husband will gladly greet your folks with a smile on his face. When you’re in love, your future husband will want to meet the people who mean the most to you. Of course he will be a little bit nervous, but he will go through with it because he knows it’s a necessary step to take before the two of you take your relationship to the next level. So if your guy is willing and open to meeting your family, just know that he’s serious about you, and he’s more than likely your future husband.
6. He Keeps You Updated, Nothing sucks more than being with a guy who is always hiding information from you. He may go out with friends on Friday night, and you don’t even hear back from him until Sunday morning. When he finally reaches out to you, he doesn’t even have an explanation for his absence. This type of guy who refuses to keep you updated on his status is definitely not the right guy for you! But if you have a guy in your life that tells you all of his plans without even hesitating, then he just might be your future husband.
7. A man who is truly husband material takes pride in how he makes you feel and has no problem with treating you like a lady at all times.
8. He actually listens to what you have to say and genuinely cares.
A good man is less hesitant to talk and more able to listen to you. Simply put, he uses his ears before he uses his mouth.
When you have things you want to talk to him about, he shows you that he cares about what you have to say. You have a high level of comfort around him and can literally tell him anything without having to worry about him judging you or making you feel awkward or uncomfortable.
8. You have problems (and you handle them well)
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9. You'll Feel Like Everything Just Fits Into Place, The truth is, when you meet the guy you're going to marry, things will just feel like they fell into place. Before I met my husband, not only was I not looking for a relationship, I actively didn't want a relationship. I wasn't even sure about the whole marriage thing in the first place.
Maybe you aren't relationship-oriented, even if someone does sweep you off your feet. If you're like me, that man may begin to change how you feel. And when you meet the guy, it'll all just fit. You'll be thrilled to spend forever with him.
Meeting the man you want to be with for the rest of your life is exciting and overwhelming.
More importantly, though, it's different. It's a unique feeling and a natural, internal knowledge that you're with the right guy for you. And usually, when you know, you just know.
10. Your future husband treats you like a priority. A loser makes you feel like a backup plan.
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